Doubt…
It’s definitely a bless that Fiorellino Boudoir arrives 2 years old, this is one of the most thing I attached in my life except my dogs :)
It’s cliche, but I cannot come to this stage without the loves from my great friends and clients, they have given me strength everytime I have doubt to myself. Especially the way of my works that stays away the flow of popular beauty standard in each single channels we face everyday.
Every now and then I heard comments about how I don’t “P” my photos, the tummy is out, the eyes are not balance, the chin is fat… on and on. Sounds like I am the lazy ass charging money but not working XD. Well, it will save tons of my time and energy if I paid few thousands for a retouching program to do the job, and all my images will come out the same tiny face, too smooth skin, crazy long legs and for sure no FAT. This is not kind of “confidence” I wanna deliver to my precious clients, I prove that you can look fabulous just being who you are without filter and photoshop.
If you are looking at yourself and judging every single part, think clearly that the FAT maybe in your head but not the body. 我們不是BLACKPINK,沒有那麼多觀眾。
I understand I am too small to change society mindset, this is a big topic about self celebration, confidence build up, beauty appreciation… Thanks god I have you all here to support me when I have doubt, and I hope this community stays in anyway to support each others and create a healthy world!
XoXo Reta 2023
《現正分手中》金句
心情小分享
最近看完宋慧喬主演的《現正分手中》,很享受當中的故事及演員演技,而劇中的金句更令我聽完後回味進行思考,以下兩段很想跟大家分享,你們有感嗎?
【你覺得大家回顧照片為的是什麼,不是重點那天拍得多好看,而是那天是什麼樣的日子,當時說了些什麼話,為何會露出笑容,照片不僅僅是照片也蘊含了回憶,記錄下來那天的氣味、空氣、幸福感,看著照片回憶就會被喚醒,當然如果還能製造新的回憶就更好了】
【照片裡的我們,大部分都帶著笑容,是因為欣喜而笑,還是因為站在相機前才笑的呢?沒有標準答案,但可以確定的是,那瞬間我們都是笑著,而且幸福的,這份回憶將會成為日後我們活下去的動力】
巴厘拍攝之旅客人分享
「如果你覺得平時Reta 影Boudoir已經有驚喜,Destination boudoir 以及Travel shooting絕對是另一個層次。
走出澳門,去到一個陌生地方,探索與適應已經要花一番心力,場堪時間有限下,Reta總會精準地找到可以襯托出女人美的shooting point。
Travel shooting 對於本來有社恐的我,並不容易。在這情況下,令一個社恐人出到大片,全賴Reta的引導及專業。厭倦去旅行影網紅相的你,Reta的Travel shooting絕對是與別不同,令旅行時光再多一份難忘經歷。
最令人意想不到的是今次我的Boudoir其中幾個拍攝位置移師到室外,平時習慣室內影Boudoir,以為自己會無辦法放開,但當見到美輪美奐的自然環境,伴隨日光,稻田入邊的鴨仔,當下只想留住最美的自己與最美的時光,於是好放心把自己交給Reta,果然,成品照再一次震撼到自己。
每一趟旅行,都會為每一個階段的自己帶來一些意義。旅行本就是探索世界與自我,發現美,體驗美的過程。跟著Reta遊世界的途中,除了旅行自身的走訪經歷,在Reta鏡頭下,於異地體驗一次發現自身美麗的拍攝經歷,絕對昇華了該趟旅行的意義,你會發現自己在這諾大的世界中,也不失風采與美麗,需要的只是滿懷自信地去發現自己的美,愛那個在鏡頭下最美的自己。」
「充滿驚喜的難忘旅程
各種的第一次,疫情後第一次外遊,第一次到峇里島,第一次參與海外寫真攝影。
雖然踏入各種未知,但有了Reta在拍攝地的悉心安排,令到拍攝十分順利。
另外,Reta 的stylish穿搭指引,事前的充分溝通,事後一張又一張精緻又classy 的照片,這一切一切堆疊起這個美麗又獨一無異的體驗。」